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To offer a humble apology

During the Warring States Period, the State of Zhao had two powerful ministers, one for each article and one for each force. The name of Wu is Lianpo. He was brave and good

at fighting. He led the army many times to defeat Qi and Wei countries. He was famous for his bravery and good at fighting. Wen's name is Lin Xi

angru. He is brave and resourceful and fearless in the face of the fierce Qin King. He made two missions to the State of

Qin. For the first time, Guobao and Shibi returned to Zhao. For the second time, he accompanied King Zhao to the "Mianchi Meeting" of the King of Qin. Both times, Zhao won a lot of face. Therefore, King Qin dared not underestimate the State of Zhao any more. Therefore, King Zhao first appointed him as a doctor, then as a superior Qing, ranking above general Lianpo.

Lianpo was very dissatisfied with Lin Xiangru. He thought: If Lin Xiangfu has any ability, he can only play a few mouths, and I am honest enough to be a real hero! He said to his subordinates, "If I see Lin Xiangru, I must let him taste my strength and see how he can treat me!"

This word came to Lin Xiangru's ears. He simply pretended to be ill and did not go to court to avoid conflicts with Lianpo. He also told his men that they should never quarr

el with honest people after meeting them. But the enemy's road is narrow. Once, Lin Xiangru went out to work. He was confronted by Lianpo coming far from the other side. Lin Xiangru asked the coachman to drive the car into the alley and let Lianpo's coaches and horses pass first.

Lin Xiangru's men were so angry that they blamed him for being timid and afraid of being honest. Lin Xiangru smiled and said, "Which is the most powerful of Lianpo and King Qin?" His men said, "Of course, the King of Qin is fierce." Lin Xiangru went on to say, "I am not afraid of even the King of Qin. Will I be afraid of being honest? You know, the Qin State is afraid to fight Zhao State because of the domestic civil servants and military generals. The two of us are like two tigers. If the two tigers fight, one of them will inevitably be injured, which creates a good opportunity for Qin to attack Zhao. Think about it, does the state matter, or does the private face matter? So I'd rather give in a little."

Lian Po felt very ashamed when the words came to him. One day, he went to Lin Xiangru's house to plead guilty, naked and carrying thorns. Lin Xiangru hastily helped Lianpo up. Since then, they have become the best intimate friends, one article and one weapon, and jointly defend the Zhao State.

Lianpo is not only a fierce general, but also a warrior, a warrior who dares to face mistakes, admit mistakes and correct mistakes. Knowing mistakes can be corrected, this is the education we received from childhood, but because of the face problem, many times, even if we know that we made mistakes, it is difficult to take the initiative to admit mistakes. It takes a lot of effort to blindly avoid the mistakes you make. Instead of wasting so much time and energy, it is better to pay directly for your mistakes and regard them as a profound lesson. People always grow up in bumps and bumps. The mistake is only a small puddle. Many people are wet by the splash of water before they know they need to avoid it carefully in the future. Therefore, don't be afraid of making mistakes on the way forward. As long as you accept and pay attention to corrections frankly after making mistakes, there will be fewer and fewer small puddles and the way forward will be smoother and smoother.